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How Trauma Shapes Love—and What Actually Helps

 

Surviving the Crash Was Just the Beginning Jun 30, 2025

What happens when you survive the unimaginable — but spend decades convinced no one could ever really love the real you?

In this episode of Love and Trauma: The Real Deal, I sat down with keynote spe...

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What do a trauma therapist, an orgasm coach, and a burned-out pediatrician have in common? Jun 29, 2025

What do a trauma therapist, an orgasm coach, and a burned-out pediatrician have in common?

More than you'd ever expect.

This month on Love and Trauma: The Real Deal, we went there. Into the stories,...

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What happens when the woman who’s spent her life saving others… finally breaks? Jun 28, 2025

What happens when the woman trained to save others… realizes she can’t save herself?

That was the wake-up call for Dr. Lamia Katbi—a high-achieving pediatrician, keynote speaker, TEDx presenter, and ...

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Your Survival Mode Isn’t Your Fault—But It’s Not Serving You Anymore Jun 27, 2025

What if the very patterns you use to feel safe in a relationship are the same ones keeping you stuck?

When I sat down with Ayla Fleming, LCSW, LCADC — a trauma-informed therapist that’s the question ...

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Healing Vibes with Elle Petrillo Jun 26, 2025

When the Strongest People Finally Say, “I Need Help”

You know those people who just radiate success? The ones who are crushing it in business, look polished on the outside, and seem like they have it...

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The Pleasure Prescription: Healing Trauma One Orgasm at a Time Jun 26, 2025

When I first heard Girisha Andrea describe herself as an orgasm coach and grief specialist, I was intrigued. After talking with her? I was absolutely floored.

Girisha is a Certified Sex, Love & Relat...

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“He Doesn’t Have to Change First”: How 3 Wives Transformed Their Trauma-Impacted Relationships Jun 25, 2025

When you're in a relationship with someone who’s survived childhood trauma, it can feel like nothing works.

You try to stay calm.
You try to communicate better.
You try to fix things—again and again....

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When the Operating Room Broke Her—And Built Something New Jun 23, 2025

What if the wine you’re using to “wind down” is actually keeping you stuck in survival mode?

That’s the question I didn’t know I needed answered—until I sat down with Kathryn Traff, neuroscience expe...

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Raised by Cherokee Elders, Shaped by Struggle—Dr. Argie Nichols on Living Her Legacy Jun 22, 2025

Imagine a world where kindness isn’t just something we talk about—but something we live by. A world where challenges don’t define you, but instead refine you.

That’s the world Dr. Argie Nell Nichols ...

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When Numbing Doesn’t Work Anymore: A Wake-Up Call to Heal Jun 21, 2025

What if the lowest point in your life—the one filled with shame, regret, and fear—was actually the turning point? That’s exactly what happened to Marci Hopkins, award-winning TV host, podcast creator,...

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From Medical Trauma to Truth: How to Break the Cycle and Build a Life of Purpose Jun 20, 2025

I’ve spoken with a lot of incredible guests on Love and Trauma: The Real Deal, but this episode with Niobis Queiro hit differently.

Niobis is a nationally recognized healthcare leader, a best-selling...

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The Emotional Bomb Suit We Wear for Love—and How to Take It Off Jun 19, 2025

What if the very thing you thought was keeping your relationship safe… was actually keeping you stuck?

That’s the conversation I had with Emily Gangell, and wow—this one cracked something open.

Emil...

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