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Confront the Shadows: Wives' Roadmap to Healing and Rebuilding When Husband's Trauma Takes Center Stage

Hosted by Danielle Sebastian, Empowerment Coach

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Danielle Sebastian is a sought after expert, bestselling author and speaker who helps wives navigate and repair their marriages as they support their husbands through childhood trauma recovery.

Are you ready to transform your marriage?

Picture this: a life filled with genuine connection, understanding, and love. If you're tired of feeling alone, unseen, and hopeless in your marriage due to your husband's past trauma, we're here to guide you toward the healing and happiness you both deserve...

but, I am here to tell you that it begins with YOU.

 

Imagine being able to [insert Promise. Paint a vision and write out a picture of the future that your Avatar Persona wants]. The potential for that to become a reality is more realistic today than ever before. But it won’t come easy because most [Avatar Persona]s who try to [insert variation of Promise] are going to find that they get blocked by [Problem]. You know how that works right? At first it’s exciting when you start to work towards [variation of Promise] but then all of a sudden you bump into [variation of Problem].

As a result, your once grand vision of [insert variation of Promise] has been thwarted as your actual reality looks more like: [List off Pain. Remember, Pain is “describing a day in their life as it exists currently because of the absence of your solution.” So create a bulleted list of 1-liners that describe what most of your Avatar’s lives look like today as it relates to your topic] [Pain] [Pain] [Pain] [Pain] [Pain] Which is why we hear most [Avatar Persona]s tell us that on a pretty regular basis they feel [Pain adjective/feeling/emotion], [Pain adjective/feeling/emotion], and [Pain adjective/feeling/emotion]. Sound about right? The reason [I/we] know is because [I/we] have been there ourselves. Back when I was [describe the era in your life] was when I first decided that I wanted to achieve [Promise]. But as soon as I started on that journey I immediately got blocked by [Problem] and began feeling [Pain], [Pain], and [Pain].

It was so frustrating and discouraging as I [describe a day in your life back then which similarly mirrors how your prospect’s life likely looks today as they are faced with many of the same challenges that you were]. Just as things were feeling hopeless and I was about to give up, I had a major epiphany! I realized that when I would simply [insert derivative Message from BPS from Brand DNA] all of a sudden things started to change. Instead of feeling [Pain] and [Pain] and [Pain], I instead started to experience things like [Payoff] and [Payoff]. It was incredible! And now over the past [x#] of years since, I have actually developed a very specific [x# (# of Pillars from your Modular Content Method in Captivating Content)] step by step system that can help any [Avatar Persona] to overcome [Problem] so that they can experience [Promise].

Here’s the thing…

Because I care so deeply about helping [Avatar Persona]s to find more [Payoff] and [Payoff], I have put together a FREE training where I’m going to show you my [x#] step method for exactly how to [overcome Problem variation] so that you can instead have [insert Promise variation]. Specifically, in this training, I’m going to do a deep dive on: [insert what you’ll teach them in the free training which should be a sub-part of your entire MCM (Modular Content Method). Typically it’s going to be something from 2 of your best Pillars from your Captivating Content MCM]. And [insert what you’ll teach them in the free training which should be a sub-part of your entire MCM (Modular Content Method). Typically it’s going to be something from 2 of your best Pillars from your Captivating Content MCM]. [BUTTON: Sign up Now/Save your Seat!]

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If you will just take the time to join this LIVE free training all the way through, then I promise that by the end you will have learned how to:

[Payoff 1. Remember that Payoff is the inverse of Pain. Payoff is to describe a day in their life as it will exist in the future as the result of having interacted with you.] [Payoff 2] [Payoff 3] [Payoff 4] [Payoff 5]

We have had the honor of helping incredible women/wives, just like you, defeat [problem]…. - Over the past [x#] of years, me and my team have helped over [x#] [Avatar Persona]s just like you to defeat [Problem] and have more [Promise] in their [life/business]. You don’t just have to take my word for it. Here is what other people are saying about our training: [Proof 1 testimonial] [Proof 2 testimonial] [Proof 3 testimonial] [Proof 4 testimonial] [Proof 5 testimonial]

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part 1 (PROCESS): If you are tired of having to deal with [insert Problem variation] and done with having to feel [insert Pain emotion] and [insert Pain emotion] as you pursue [insert Promise variation], then you need to join us for this pivotal training. In just a mere 90 minutes, you could know how to be free from all of that and know exactly what you need to do in order to have more [Payoff] and [Payoff]. In the first part of the training I’m going to focus on sharing with you [technique or topic #1 written in Payoff form]. Then we’re going to talk about [technique or topic #2 written in Payoff form]. Towards the very end of the training I’ll show you exactly how to [technique or topic #3 written in Payoff form].

I am here to personally guarantee you that this training will cut [insert appropriate time reference] off of your learning curve and prevent you from making so many common mistakes that other people/wives/women in your situation make. It will help you get clear on exactly what it takes to get closer to [insert Promise variation]. And remember this is all completely FREE for you. It’s a part of how I introduce myself to new people and give back to those who are truly struggling with [insert Problem variation] just like I once was.

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part 1:   [x#] of years ago when I first started pursuing the goal of [Promise] I was so excited/relieved. But for so many years, I experienced [Pain] and [Pain]. And in the last [era of time that has past] since I started (“working with” if not founder) [WFE CARE FRAMEWORK], I have now seen [dozens/hundreds/thousands] of [Avatar Persona]s struggle with the exact same thing. And that leads me to why I really developed this process. 

(YOUR PULL from revenue engine) [Share an emotional, heartfelt, open, and honest description of why you started your personal brand. Talk about whatever breaks your heart as it relates to your topic/space. Talk about what makes you mad. Talk about what gives you hope. Just “unload” emotionally on the viewer about why you wake up every day and do what you do and pursue building this brand and message. Remember also, you are most powerfully positioned to serve the person you once were, so think about what it was like to be that person you were long ago and think about what that person would’ve needed to here in order to take action on investing and joining a program like yours. Talk directly to that older version of you.] And if any of that resonates with you or if you have any of those same feelings, or challenges, or struggles, or hopes, or dreams, I want to openly extend an invitation to you to join me in this free LIVE training.

You are the reason we are here. We are relentlessly dedicated to serving [Avatar Persona]s just like you. So go ahead and sign up and we’ll see you LIVE! I look forward to virtually meeting you!

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In this value-packed live webinar

You’ll discover how to…

  • Get back in the driver's seat of your life
  • Build a supportive network against loneliness
  • Embrace a healthy selfishness
  • Reduce conflict, boost confidence

We all want to be in a supported, healthy relationship.

But if you are married to a childhood trauma survivor, you may find yourself feeling lonely, burned out, hopeless...not even sure what you want anymore.

While the idea of being more secure and happy is inspiring, it can also feel overwhelming and unattainable.

Many women who are supporting their husbands' healing are so burned out, in a constant state of anxiety and feel like they've used all their lifelines with loved ones. That it's easy to feel like there is nowhere to go for help, that their husbands' healing is out of their control and they may never reach the closeness thy so want.

Oftentimes, wives are so close to reaching their breaking point they can't imagine there is a way to break free from their situation…

In this webinar I will take you through the four-step Wife-CARE process that I utilize with my private coaching clients.

You will learn...

  • The more you understand about trauma and recovery, the more equipped you will be to support your spouse to become the best version of themselves, and in turn, become the best version of yourself and as a couple.
  • Because of your closeness to your husband, you will inevitably, and accidentally, trigger their responses. BUT you need to separate yourself from these and give yourself permission to let go of shame and blame   
  • Because those responses are subconscious, your husband can't express verbally how he is feeling, so you have to be able to identify those triggers and effectively deal with them   
  • The trauma recovery process can be so emotionally and physically taxing, you will need help and you will need to take care of yourself. Ladies, it’s ok for you to get help!
I’m In!!!

Don't do this the hard way, by...

  • Spending timeless hours researching the limited data there is out there for wife supporters and how the trauma impacts relationships.
  • Piecing together a support system through trial and error.
  • Putting your husband and family first until you’re too exhausted and depleted to be much support.
  • Waiting for that magic time when everything would just be better.

Dr. Blair D. Davison, M.D., Child and Adolescent Psychiatry

"Danielle guides wives through the steps to a stronger self, marriage and family. The Wife-CARE process Danielle shares is a powerful tool for building resilience not only in women wanting to support their husbands, but for anyone who is in a committed relationship with a survivor of abuse."

I want to be of service...

From firsthand experience and hearing the stories of countless wives in similar circumstances, it's clear that relationships impacted by childhood trauma are in a state of crisis.

Extensive research reveals a glaring absence of information, support, and resources for wives in the supporter role, exacerbating the challenges they face.

My mission is to bridge this gap, offering the much-needed support and resources for wives navigating this journey.

Together, we can reclaim happiness and closeness, breaking free from the shadows of the past and embracing a future of resilience and healing!

Danielle

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Danielle Sebastian...

is an expert on identifying and overcoming trauma in relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Resilient Wives: A Guide for Wives Supporting Their Husband Through Childhood Trauma Recovery" and has helped hundreds of women navigate and repair their marriages as they support their husbands through trauma recovery.

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