Embark on a journey to a healthy, whole, and HAPPY marriage.
Shift from surviving to thriving as you navigate the complexities of supporting your husband's healing journey from childhood trauma.
I'm Ready! Let's Do This, Danielle!
We all want to be in a supported, healthy relationship!
But if you are married to a childhood trauma survivor, you may find yourself feeling lonely, burned out, hopeless...not even sure what you want anymore.
While the idea of being more secure and happy is inspiring, it can also feel overwhelming and unattainable.
Many women who are supporting their husbands' healing are so burned out, in a constant state of anxiety and feel like they've used all their lifelines with loved ones. It's easy to feel like there is nowhere to go for help, that their husbands' healing is out of their control and they may never reach the closeness they so want.
Oftentimes, wives are so close to reaching their breaking point they can't imagine there is a way to break free from their siutation...
Research shows...
A study conducted in 2000 examined 96 couples, at least one of whom reported a history of childhood abuse. The study found that couples with a history of childhood abuse were more likely to experience lower relationship satisfaction and higher individual stress symptoms than couples without an abuse history. Additionally, couples with a history of childhood abuse scored lower on cohesion, indicating that emotional bonds between spouses may be weaker in such marriages. The study highlights the impact of childhood trauma on marriages and the need to address and heal the resulting issues.
So what happens to the supporting spouse?
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You feel resentful and frustrated due to the burden of holding things together.
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You are always on edge, worried about saying or doing the wrong things.
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Self-doubt creeps in as you question your reactions.
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At times, you even question your compatibility and worry if he'd be happier with someone else.
If this is you, you're in the right place!
And I'll prove it! (Keep scrolling, my friend.)
For years, I struggled...
to make sense of my seemingly-doomed marriage. It was only after uncovering the truth that everything began to click -my husband revealed for the first time to anyone a horrifying history of childhood trauma at the hands of the church. This realization sparked an arduous eight-year mission of recovery - one fraught with deep sorrow and anguish.
After enduring many struggles with little guidance, I set out to understand how childhood trauma affects intimacy and our relationships. I realized that by taking better care of myself and getting the support I needed, I could be better equipped to become the best source of help. Finally learning this brought newfound hope and solace into our lives.
When I looked back, I realized there was a framework I had to work through in order to get to a place where we could establish more closeness and connection. This framework, called Wife-CARE, is developed to empower YOU. Avoid the same countless struggles and gain insights that can transform your own journey.
Discover the power within your grasp as I reveal the key to regaining control amidst chaos.
I'm in!Introducing... Revive & Thrive: Empowering Wives in Supporting Their Husbands Through Childhood Trauma Recovery
Are you ready to embark on a transformative journey that will empower you to support your husband's healing and build a stronger, healthier marriage? Look no further! "Revive & Thrive" is a comprehensive program designed specifically for wives like you who are navigating the complexities of supporting their husbands through childhood trauma recovery.
With our Wife-CARE framework as the guiding compass,
this program equips you with comprehensive knowledge to gain a profound understanding of the challenges at hand, while getting the support necessary to empower yourself, prioritize self-care, and foster the development of a more resilient and fulfilling marriage.
Ready to take charge of your life and build the relationship of your dreams? Don't let your situation hold you back any longer...
What you'll get:
Get back in the driver's seat of your life
This online program is here to equip you with proven steps and a roadmap to success, helping you regain control and build healthier communication patterns.
Reduce conflict, boost confidence
If you're in a marriage with a childhood trauma survivor, we offer sessions, tools, and resources to help you reduce conflict and gain confidence.
Break free from your situation
Don't let your situation control you any longer. Take the first step towards building a stronger, healthier relationship.
Achieve the life and relationship you deserve
With our program, you'll have the guidance you need to achieve the life and relationship you've always wanted.
Together, let's turn your dreams into your reality!
Dr. Blair C. Davison, M.D., Child and Adolescent Psychiatry
"Danielle guides wives through the steps to a stronger self, marriage, and family. The Wife-CARE process that Danielle shares is a powerful tool for building resilience not only in women wanting to support their husbands but for anyone who is in a committed relationship with a survivor of abuse."
Anonymous Wife to Trauma Survivor
"Danielle paves a path for hope and healing for the spouse, but also helps establish realistic expectations. She outlines the good-the bad-and the ugly to lay out a plan for building your own support system and self-care practices you need to take control of yourself. Following her guide you end up healing wounds your soul has accumulated to develop the resilience needed to support your partner. Marriage is hard, marriage to a childhood trauma victim is even harder, but thanks to Danielle it doesn't have to be so hard finding a way to stay strong as the supporting spouse on the way through recovery."
Our signature program includes...
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10 On-Demand Video Implementation Lessons
that walk you through my Wife-CARE framework I have spent the last 8 years researching, tweaking and refining to get more confidence, less conflict, better communication and a happier, healthier relationship. -
Next level exercises, scripts, assessments and action plans
to amplify your results and see results now.
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Go-To Activities
to keep you from reaching your breaking point. Learn to prioritize your self-care.
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Monthly Group Q&A Sessions
Each month we will cover a specific phase and any/all of the corresponding topics with that phase.
Choose the best fit for you...
We are delighted to present our personalized programs, tailored to meet you exactly where you are on your journey. With two distinct options available, we ensure that regardless of your current situation, we have a plan that perfectly aligns with your unique needs and aspirations.
Revive & Thrive
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10 On-Demand Video Implementation Lessons
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Course Handout (pdf download)
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Exercises, scripts, assessments and action plans after each Video Lesson
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Once Monthly Group Q&A Sessions
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1 Hour 1:1 Weekly Coaching Sessions with Danielle
Thrive Together
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10 On-Demand Video Implementation Lessons
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Course Handout (pdf download)
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Exercises, scripts, assessments and action plans after each Video Lesson
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Once Monthly Group Q&A Sessions
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1 Hour 1:1 Weekly Coaching Sessions with Danielle
The Hard Way...
● Spending timeless hours researching the limited data there is out there for wife supporters and how the trauma impacts relationships.
● Piecing together a support system through trial and error.
● Putting your husband and family first until you’re too exhausted and depleted to be much support.
● Waiting for that magic time when everything would just be better.
The Easier Way...
● Saves you time by allowing you to take a deep dive into how YOUR particular marriage has been impacted by the childhood trauma.
● You can discover the many things that are within your reach for you to control.
● You will build resilience in your marriage, giving you the ability to recover from setbacks.
Here's what you'll get
when you enroll during this limited time period.
- The Entire Resilient Wives Video Course following my 4 step WifeCARE framework.
- BONUS Interview with Dr. Blair Davison, M.D., Child and Adolescent Psychiatry to equip yourself with empathy for a faster path to healing. An exclusive training on how childhood trauma changes the brain.
- BONUS A free hard copy of my #1 Amazon Bestselling Book, Resilient WIves: A Guide for Wifes Supporting Their Husband Through Childhood Trauma Recovery with the purchase of the Thrive Together package with 1:1 coaching.
- A Clear Roadmap to Empower Yourself and prioritize yourself towards a more resilient and fulfilling marriage.
Why YOU deserve to have a seat at the table…
I've taken years to build this program, so that I could get it right. These tools are what I wish someone was able to give me eight years ago, but I could never find. Now, more than ever before, there is an undeniable need for an all-inclusive, one-stop destination.
I'm talking fast, lasting transformation in your life, in love, in your health, your happiness, and your dreams.
Each time you've sought guidance, pondered the possibility of it being too late, or questioned your husband's commitment to growth, your heartfelt inquiries haven't gone unnoticed. We've listened attentively to your needs and concerns, and we're thrilled to introduce Revive & Thrive—the definitive response that materializes those answers. Now, the time has come for you to seize this opportunity, to embrace decisive action and embark on a transformative journey towards becoming truly resilient. Say yes today and redefine your future as a resilient wife.
Don’t be the one who looks back and thinks, did I try everything I could in my marriage?
Join me on this transformative expedition from despair to resilience....!
We are confident that this program will help you get create healthier patterns in your marriage, help you reduce conflict, and boost confidence in your choices.
