The 4 Trauma-Informed Tools That Actually Work—Even If He Doesn’t See His Trauma Is Part of the Problem

If you’ve been walking on eggshells, trying everything, and still feel stuck—this free workshop will show you exactly how to turn things around.

Does this sound familiar?

You’ve read the books, stayed calm, used “I statements,” and tried to keep the peace—but even the smallest conversations lead to blowups, shutdowns, or days of silence.

When you share how lonely or unsupported you feel, you’re met with blank stares, snapped at, or dismissed. It’s exhausting.

Here’s the truth:
You’re not broken. Your marriage isn’t hopeless. You’re just living in a trauma-impacted relationship—and there’s a way forward.

Lina F.

"It was so nice to hear that regular communication tools don't work. I've seen that, but I've never heard it."

Hannah M.

"Feeling seen and hopeful for change. Reading the lists of things that I've tried and what it is doing to our relationship made me feel not alone."

Ibby

"The part about what I say versus what they hear was really good and resonated."

I Know This Because I’ve Been There.

For years, I felt like nothing I said—or how I said it—worked. Every conversation ended in tension, withdrawal, or silence. I questioned everything:

Was I asking too much?
Did I marry the wrong person?
Or worse… was I the problem?

It wasn’t until I discovered the truth about trauma responses that everything shifted. My husband wasn’t ignoring me to be rude—his nervous system was reacting to alarms I couldn’t see.

Once I understood that, I stopped spinning my wheels and started making real progress.

Stephanie W.

"I am coming to believe that me making the shift in my growth and health will bring about the changes in my marriage."

Danielle P.

"Thank you for all this. This is like you're in my house and in my marriage haha."

Heather A.

"Supporting my husband isn't about doing everything for him - it's about being a partner and prioritizing my own well-being."

In This Free Workshop, You’ll Discover:

✔️Why trauma survivors react like they’re being chased by a bear—and how to respond without feeding the fire.

✔️How to recognize triggers in real-time and stop feeling like you’re “crazy.”

✔️The 4 trauma-informed shifts to protect your peace, reduce conflict, and reconnect with your partner.

✔️How to prioritize your own happiness without shutting down emotionally.

Nicole O.

"What resonated the most was where you said you have to remember to prioritize your own happiness. I know that, but I'm so bad at believing that it's true."

Jennifer

"So much resonates - thank you."

Mara W.

"Thank you, this is so helpful and the work book will be utilized."

This is your sign that things can get better.

You’ll leave this workshop with:

A clear understanding of your partner’s trauma responses.
Tools to reduce conflict and build connection.
The exact steps to protect your peace and finally feel like a team again.

No fluff. No generic advice. Just trauma-informed tools that actually work—even if your partner isn’t doing the work yet.

Sing up for the LIVE Workshop!